Keeping Kids Safe: A Parent's Guide to Child Safety
The Protection
The protection of
children starts with the early recognition of vulnerability. It is
important to remember that all vulnerable children need to be protected from
harm.
The key factor in the
protection of vulnerable children is the recognition of the signs of abuse and
neglect. A change in the child’s behaviour is often an early sign that
something is wrong.
The presence of a
single change in behaviour does not prove the existence of abuse or harm,
however, when such behavioural changes appear repeatedly or in combination, the
situation must be examined more closely, and the possibility of harm or abuse
considered.
Child protection is
everyone’s business because of the shocking consequences abuse has on children
of all ages, and the damage it causes to adult survivors for the rest of their
lives. It causes a great deal of anxiety to the victim and the other
people involved. If there is a suspicion that a child is being harmed,
reporting the suspicions may protect the child.
The following are
examples of behavioural signs that may signal the presence of abuse, harm or
neglect:
- Nightmares, trouble sleeping, fear of the dark, or
other sleeping problems
- Extreme fear of “Monsters”
- Loss of appetite, or problems with eating or swallowing
- Sudden mood swings: rage, fear, anger, or withdrawal
- Fear of certain people (e.g. a child may not want to be
left alone with a baby-sitter, a friend, a relative, or some other child
or adult; or a child who is usually talkative and cheery may become quiet
and distant when around a certain person)
- Sexual activities with toys or other children, such as
simulating sex with dolls or asking other children/siblings to behave
sexually
- New words for private body parts
- Refusing to talk about a “secret” he/she has with an
adult or older child
- Talking about a new older friend
- Suddenly having money
- Self-harming such as cutting or burning.
There are other forms
of behaviour that also require vigilance. When an abuser and an abused child
are together then the abuser often displays certain behaviours. Any one of
these in isolation is not a sign of child abuse, however, when such behaviours
appear repeatedly or in combination, the situation must be examined more closely,
and the possibility of child abuse considered.
Often an adult or
older child who is abusing a child will:
- Rarely leave the child alone in the presence of other
adults
- Refuse to allow a child to set any of his or her own
limits.
- Insist on hugging, touching, kissing, tickling,
wrestling with or holding a child even when the child does not want this
affection
- Manage to get time alone or insist on time alone with a
child with no interruptions
- Spend most of his/her spare time with children and have
little interest in spending time with someone of their own age
- Regularly offers to babysit many different children
without payment, or to take children on overnight outings alone
- Buy the child expensive gifts or give money for no
apparent reason.
- Frequently walk into the bathroom without knocking or
asking first
- Allow the child to consistently get away with
inappropriate behaviour.
Through being aware of
the warning signs, adults can be far more aware of the possibility of harm,
abuse, or neglect. Whenever the signs are recognised, the adult must respond
and ensure protection for the child.
Organisations should
have a set of procedures in place to ensure that all children get the
appropriate level of protection from harm to meet their needs. Much depends on
the type of organisation, however, some of the more important procedures are:
- Child protection policies
- Recruitment and selection of staff/volunteers
- Training and development to raise awareness or
statutory training.
- Investigation procedures, what to do in the event of an
allegation of abuse.
- Reporting and recording incidents
Any organisation that
cares for the wellbeing of the children must have in place a policy, which sets
out how the organisation will ensure the protection of children in its care.
The policy should apply to all staff and volunteers working within the
organisation. A good policy should cover at least the five main elements of:
- Safe recruitment – checking the suitability of staff
and volunteers to work with children through making a check with the
Disclosure Barring Service (DBS)
- Raising awareness of child protection issues through
staff or volunteer child protection training
- Procedures for identifying and reporting cases, or
suspected cases, of abuse.
- Supporting children who have been abused.
- Establishing a safe environment for children
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Garry Harvey
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